Connection (Finding)

LITERARY SUGGESTIONS FOR FINDING CONNECTION

BEST BOOKS ON FINDING CONNECTION LIFE MEANING

The Overstory (Fiction) by Richard Powers

The Overstory by Richard Powers

Richard Powers’ 12th novel, The Overstory tells the tale of two very different worlds — one of humans and that of non-humans (trees) caught up in the timber wars of the Pacific Northwest. A beautiful novel of humans reconnecting with nature with a select few having access to an invisible yet fascinatingly inventive world.

A complex plot with colourful, rich characters — a revealing and rewarding read that will rekindle your love for nature.

Man’s Search for Meaning (Non-fiction) by Viktor Frankl

Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

This book is great for coming to terms with suffering, making sense of tough situations and finding our purpose in life.

The author, an Auschwitz Nazi death camp survivor, illustrates, that through suffering, we find meaning and the drive to keep going. Our goal in life is not to attain pleasure or power but to ‘discover meaning’ and it is the pursuit of this meaning that provides the purpose of life.

Specifically, the book advocates finding meaning in three different ways: through making ourselves useful to others, through unconditionally loving others and through suffering.

A significant book that continues to shine its wisdom whatever our circumstances.

The Hero With a Thousand Faces (Non-fiction) by Joseph Campbell

The Hero With A Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell

A captivating take on mythology and how they explain human nature and the psyche. All cultures have similar mythology and stories that act as metaphors for human psychology and behaviour.

As a race we all ultimately have one story, a monomyth, with elements of creation and destruction. For example, there are many parallels between Greek and Hindu myths centred around similar story lines. The Hero With A Thousand Faces brings together mythology across the full spectrum of human cultures, ancient and modern, ranging from Hindu, Greek, Jewish, Maori, Buddhist, Romans amongst others.

A fascinating examination of the human psyche, including our natural desires to explain our inner world through the power of stories.

The Meaning of Human Existence (Non-fiction)by Pulitzer Prize-winning author Edward O’ Wilson

The Meaning of Human Existence by Edward O’ Wilson

Wilson, a fascinating biologist, flags shrewd insights that highlight our inadequate understanding of the world. Almost a brief history on mankind, the story narrates human progress across science and the arts. Our self-obsession is what propels our ability to invent, innovate and achieve almost god-like status. Why do we prefer to live near water? Why would aliens never colonise the world?

The most insightful moments of the book are the ones on religion — whilst religion provides a wonderful sense of community and order in a chaotic world, it amplifies more evils overall through archaic beliefs and the encouragement of behaviours that no longer serve us as a species. Strict codes, ways of being and demands for loyalty instigate religious superiority and encourage discrimination. Blind faith over evidence-based inquiry feeds religious tribalism.

A serious but brilliant book, that will get you thinking about life’s big questions.

Beyond Religion (Non-fiction) by Dalai Lama

Beyond Religion by Dalai Lama

One of the greatest political philosophers of all time, the Dalai Lama makes the case for living an ethical life based on a universal set of human values that transcends religious borders. The concept that religion is outdated and humans are evolving to become more spiritual beings is the theme of the book and offers promise of a better, ethical framework for living peacefully.

The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are (Non-fiction) by Alan Watts

The Book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are by Alan Watts

A powerful little book that will literally change your mindset. Those who have read the book report a shift in mindset and the way they look at the world. Based on Eastern philosophies and the Hindu concept of Vedanta, the book discusses how we are all part of a greater consciousness, rather than isolated beings. In fact acting in isolation removes joy, brings discontent and is destructive — we view everyone and everything with hostility, abusing nature and our own people. It leaves us helpless, angry and traumatised. By recognising that we are connected to everyone and everything around us, we act differently, make better decisions, leave the ego at the door and become more self-aware.

Autobiography of a Yogi (Non-fiction) by Paramahansa Yogananda

Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda

A spiritual masterpiece and fascinating autobiography by Paramahansa Yogananda, one of the most incredible spiritual masters of our time. The book articulates his journey to ‘self-realisation’ or ‘enlightenment’. A childhood filled with strong mentors and teachers, Paramahansa trained under the strict and disciplined teachings of his highly regarded guru. Through the study of yoga and meditation, he achieves great feats unheard of for humans (and which would conventionally be termed as ‘magic’).

Observing regular miracles and living an extraordinary existence, he sheds light on a whole new type of spiritual existence that is far removed from everyday life. He brought his teachings to the United States where he taught for 30 years, crossing paths with other great spiritual leaders including Mahatma Gandhi and Rabindranath Tagore. You may want to read it a few times due to its intensity and detail.

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